I think the main problem is human nature. Weather it's aquariums, cars, sports or religion, when people get passionate about something, moderation and balance are the first things that go out the window. People read this one book and think they know it all. The problem is that for any subject, especially planted aquariums, books always contain a lot of misinformation and misconceptions. Stuff that has been repeated over and over again since the times of the Victorians. Nobody really took the time to check it out since it's a hobby, not really a science. Well... except Tom and others in this forum that is.
The only way I found that works when confronted with a zealot (or an elitist, there's no shortage of those types in the aquarium scene... big tanks with big egos) is to show better results and/or prove them wrong and to to do your "homework".
The biggest discus zealot (and elitist) I ever met was really upset with me not because I was telling him that he was wrong (I never told him that), but actually because he's been testing his water parameters every other day (without calibrating his kits) and changing his water at the same frequency for over 10 years. When he saw my tank (smaller, but it looks a lot better that his) and I explained to him that I never test for anything and do my water changes every week (or two). All I do is toss in a few ml of NKP and a few ml of trace+Iron stock solution (all generic stuff that I payed very little for at a hydroponics store, dry, and then mixed to my liking), sit back, relax and enjoy my tanks. No testing, no charts no nothing. He flipped.
I think that what made him angry was the fact that he has been wasting so much time, effort, energy and money buying his expensive brand name products AND my tanks looked better that his AND I've been keeping planted tanks for half the time he has. It couldn't be true. I couldn't be right. I just couldn't. It was just too simple...
He also realized that for all of those years, he's been spreading lies and misconceptions everywhere.
Nobody likes to be wrong and nobody likes to feel like a distributor of fallacies.
Once you understand this, these types are pretty easy to deal with.

Just walk away...
How can this be solved or resolved? Sorry Tom, but I think that it cannot be solved. It's human nature... But don't worry, you are getting through to some of us at least.
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