LOL! I too, really wanted a chart or matrix that showed just how much of what and when for dosing. I was hesitant, after using Chuck's calculator, to just start dumping in the chemistry set. And I really had to laugh when Tom answered your post with some knowledge about C02! Don't get me wrong, Tom put me on the path to success and when I don't stray, I get fabulous results. I'm sure he doesn't have time to lay out a mistake proof plan for each of us though, and sometimes his writing style is a bit cryptic.
Sounds to me like you have a grasp of the concept, I'd say go for it. I'm not sure about the fleet enema, I use KH2P04 for my phosphate source.
steve
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