Patrice, check out this thread
making-standard-kh-solutions for how to make a solution to go in the drop checker.
Most reagents need about 2 drops per 1ml of water, although all that will happen if you add too much is that the colours are darker, so less makes them easier to read.
Basically, all a drop checker is, is a PH tester, but where it differs, is that over about 2 hours (roughly how much time they take to work) the CO2 passes from the tank water, through the air gap, and into the checker water, thus changing the PH of the test solution. This makes it much much more accurate, as all that can alter the PH of the test solution is gas, not substrate, ferts or any of the other things we throw in our tanks.
The reason we make our own KH solutions is that then we know EXACTLY the reading for that solution. As Shane says, a solution of 4 dKH will yield 30 ppm when it goes green, how dark/light that is depends on the reagent amounts you used. It just needs to be not blue, or blue/green.. if its green, your on the right track. Mine tends to go a bit yellowy if I really crank up the CO2.
As far as how far to fill it, if you have one of those pretty glass ones, with no check strip, then its totally upto you really, just make sure its not going to leak out of you knock it or something when its in the tank. If its a square one, like the Red Sea type, then fill it so when you turn it upright, the level of the fluid is about upto the top of the white reference strip.