1 - there is no reason to add Laterite under AS. ADA actually makes another product called Power Sand for this reason, but if you are dosing your water column following EI - you will not need it.
2 - Not sure about your Eheim, but I use 2x Rena XP3's - with a reactor plumbed into the outline of one of them. Works great.
3 - Not sure, but I -HEART- my reactor
4 - I am not familiar with Purigen, but my guess would be that this is fine
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6 - That is an awesome light. You will be very happy with it.
7 - Dunno, never used the stuff, but I am sure Google could help you if you don't hear from anyone here...
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